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LADYES LADYES LADYES!!!!
GIVE ME YOUR EAR, HEAR FROM A TRUE AN PERFECT HUSBAND!!!!!!!
GOD MADE THE WOMAN 4 THE MAN!!!
WHO SAY SO????
THE BIBLE TELL ME SO!!!!!
IN THE BIBLE HAVE WIFE AND CONCUBINE(MISTRESS)THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH A MAN HAVING 300 WIFES AND 700 CONCUBINES(SECOND WIFE,THAT IS IF HE CAN AFORD IT.
KING DAVID A MAN AFTER GOD'S OWN HEART. BOY O BOY??
KING SOLOMON??? (U TALK ABOUT THE BIBLE SAY?) JACOB HAVING 4 SISTERS AS WIFE AT THE SAME TIME???
THE 12 PATRIARCH???
I WILL NOT QUOTE BIBLE CHAPTER
GOD SAID 2 DAVID(THROUGH THE MOUTH OF NATHAN) IS THERE ANY THING I WOULD WITH-HOLD FROM U(AFTER DAVID HAD URIAH KILL)IF U WANTED MORE WIFES I WOULD HAVE GIVEN THEM 2 U!!!(2 SAMUEL 12:8.)LET ME HEAR FROM THE HOLY COSTERS.LOL. I COULD GO ON AND ON QUOTING BIBLE.
LET THE SO-CALL CHRISTIANS DO SO!!!
SHORTE----END AND LONGER----END ARE 4 WIFE #1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 AS MANY AS U CAN AFORD......
ONE QUESTION, IS IT ONLY THE MEN WHO LOVE SEXXXXXXXXX???
O!!!! THE WIFES HATE IT???
The reality is that we women should simply stop hurting each other. Another reality is HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis and other std's.
@ ABOVE CAN THAT EVER STOP??
WAKE UP.STOP THE DAY DREAMING
REALITY U SAY HEAR O WOMAN GOD MADE THE WOMAN 4 THE MAN
4 THAT IS WHY A MAN WILL B ONE FLESH WITH THE WOMEN IS IS ALL SEX AND MORE SEX.EVEN THE NUNS LOVE IT,LOL
A man should have as many women as he can afford. If you are poor, strive for one; but if you are a man of substance, the sky is the limit. That is why Solomon had so many women; he was rich.
All I am reading here is who is the legal prostitute and who is not. There is nothing here about women living fulfilled independent lives, with or without a man.
St. Lucian women remain behind the curve. In other words, you take all that is dished out to you as a woman because there is some economic benefit. If you are legally married or are in a common-law situation you get the bills paid and so on.
Therefore, you happily take all the chlamydia and even the HIV because there are benefits. Sound reasoning. Ay! You might as well open a brothel.
The authour demonstrates quite clearly why she, and a majority of St. Lucian women, possess that vital character flaw, low self-esteem, which sustains such negative life-styles and low-calibre relationships.
But it takes two to tango; and the men exhibit the same character deficiency.
The continuum is quite apparent: mental dwarfs in adult bodies!
Mitra, are you a wife or mistress? You answer will put your article in proper perspective!
A study and reflection on the subject suggests that generally mistresses view marriage as a burden. Some choose to have more than one male partner. This means (1)more economic return (2)more intense and satisfying sexual encounters (3)less washing and cooking and (4) more free time for themselves.
More than one male partner? Well, greater potential to be an HIV carrier too? No?
More than one male partner? Yep! Unpublished studies in good old Saint Lucia indicate its prevalence in all classes throughout the country. It's a covert practice but very well known by some people. Of course the practice has a greater potential for HIV too!
What a disgrace! How embarrassing! Women writing about women as if their only asset was a pouch of economic real estate.
i hope i am not to late to answer the question whether i am a wife or mistress. i am a wife and a happy one at that.
But many young women have the wrong view of marriage (based on the ones I've spoken to)...many are surprised that i am married and believe i need to look old and bit down becuz i am. I believe this view is there as a result of being brought up in broken homes.
Many young women have the view that being a mistress is more attractive than being a wife. Sad but true
Seriously? Did the Voice have extra space they needed to fill?
After a woman has been trading here wares all over the place, being one of the average five mistresses of a lot of men, she has a right to be reasonable and not expect herself to be considered marriage material.
You see, too many other will have known what she has, and how she does it, and will have the bragging rights saying that this man who she has eventually married is getting the 'rest' of what he left of her. After all, he too has been to the promise land.
Let us hope that she traded up for a house, land, a car and no large amount of kids.
As it is in politics, so it is in personal life. No amount of discussion can ever protect people from the consequences of the poor choices made by them.
Please believe the mistress is living the good life. I'm waiting on my married boyfriend...in our apartment for which he pays...sipping a glass of wine on his dime...we will eat and watch movies when he returns from tending to his children and his dear, sweet, caring, compassionate, loyal, beautiful, intelligent sexual corpse of a wife, and I don't have to wash a single dish to get it, and this is just one of my men, one night of the week. Stop fooling yourselves. Beautiful women are the equivalent to a rich man. We are as entitled to our suitors as he is his concubines. It's human nature. Neither man nor woman is biologically monogamous.
As a mistress I know it's all about sex when it started but my lover and I have been doing this for awhile and we love each other and we have talked about him leaving his wife but I was against that. I love the mistress role I'm not looking for a husband I'm not looking to steal him from her I wanted a sex partner with no strings and he doe's something's for me but in no way doe's he take care of me I do for myself. I don't have the short end or long end of any stick I just have a situation that I am comfortable with.
Come on ladies it's rare that a guy is providing anything more than chump change for his chick on the side. It's all about sex and not necessarily better sex or a better looking woman. It's about 2 people playing a sick game and getting off on deceiving the wife. First and foremost a cheating spouse is no prize and has a hole in his spirit as does the woman who willingly gives up the goodies for O'Charlies and a wet rump.
Even a cheating man has decided there are 2 types of women, wifey material and easy women. Wive's get retirement accounts, finances, children and his name. These guys don't put much value on their penises but tons of value on their finances.
As strange as it seems in their mind you are a sl#t whose sole purpose is to live out some warped fantasy in their mind. Men are simple, you can sex as many men as you want but all hell breaks loose if their wife does the same.
Her naughty bits are worth waiting for to be savored, while yours are fast food.
Why settle. More than likely wifey has a maid and a nanny. This guy is lying and doing both of you.
We are living longer than at any other time in history, and who, really, can logically vow to love another person for 30 -40 years in their twenties when they don't know their a from a hole in the ground? Like it or not, the 'institution' is failing, corroborated by the fact that 2/3's of marriages end in divorce (regardless of affairs or not). There are some narrow-minded views here, not all men are looking for 'sex', but emotional connection they may have tried, and failed, to have with their wives. Divorce affects the entire communtiy, hurts others (including children - although I've never really bought that argument 'staying for the sake of the children as personally speaking I would much rather have had two happy parents than ones who were at eachother's throats, the latter which affected me in life far more than their divorce ever would have)and labels the 'offenders', many whom are living desperately isolated lives. I'm not convinced people are meant to be together forever, and don't believe those who realize this mid-life should be tethered to an outmoded and excruciating way of being to uphold a seeming 'value' imposed from a society that is clearly failing. I have never cheated nor been cheated on. But I do have compassion for some of the pained lives I see in those who have made decisions far too young to know what they were getting into, because they were told to. As angry as people become about mistresses/cheaters/whatever you want to lable them, it appears not only to be continuing, but to be rampant. It needs to be explored maturally, not unfairly maligned without knowing all of the unique reasons why it happens in the first place.
Sometimes people get married because they love each other but because it was the right thing to do and they were force to..one fatal reason why man looks for another woman he really love and not just sex..wake up people!!!!
They get married NOT because they love each other,supposedly.....
Hello i am Mary Walter; I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how i got my ex love back. I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Prophet Abbas the great messenger to the oracle that he serve, I narrated my problem to Prophet Abbas about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company. He only said to me that i have come to the right place were I will be getting my heart desire without any side effect. He told me what i need to do, After it was been done, In the next 2 days, My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness, I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director. I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Prophet Abbas at the following email address and get all your problem solve. No problem is too big for him to solve. Contact him direct on: prophetabbas@hotmail.com and get your problems solve like me..
The author is ridiculous. The story does not end well for the wife ever. If your husband is cheating he doesn't love you, you do not have his heart. The mistress is an intriguing woman he should have married but instead had to settle for you simply because he met you first. I met my fiance at work. He was stuck in a loveless marriage with a deliiusional woman. When he met me we instantly connected. He divorced his wife (she fought it because she's deliiusional and pathetic). So no, the mans heart is not with his wife, if it was he wouldn't cheat. The author would love to believe her words because her man is probably cheating.
Being both a mistress when I was young and a cheated wife when I was older, I can say this. I had multiple affairs, multiple boyfriends. It was great not to have commitment when young. I found affairs rather lonely. Only once a week, so I needed to see multiple men. I never wanted men to leave wife, and I broke up with married man when it suited me. One was very persistent and was longer to get rid off.
As cheated wife, yes job left me neglecting husband and children. I know job needs to change. Husband sought solace in arms of a desperate divorced woman. After initial enjoyment he soon found he could not get rid of her. After I found out, I was hurt for 2 days until I spoke with mistress. Poor woman wants to blame her inability to let go on him. Poor diddums. I told her to get over it. I told husband he was lucky to have me and he agreed. We still have issues, but I am confident of being the winner that I am.
Quote: "IN THE BIBLE HAVE WIFE AND CONCUBINE(MISTRESS)THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH A MAN HAVING 300 WIFES AND 700 CONCUBINES(SECOND WIFE,THAT IS IF HE CAN AFORD IT."
Then it must be read in the Bible that 999 men miss out for the greedy rich man that has 300 wives and 700 concubines. You wouldn't want to be a poor man that misses out. The ratio of men to women is approximately 1:1. Unless rich man wants to share his wives and concubines with poor men. Don't you love someone with no sense of maths.
My personal experience, it's not all the time about sex. Feelings do get involved. From day one he told me that he wasn't leaving his wife. Not because he "loved" her but because they had children. It wasn't even because of the money because he can rebuild. He was just concerned with the aspect of his children point blank and I fully understood well fast forward 2 1/2 years later. I kept my feelings at bay because of the initial conversation meanwhile it was he who fell in love with me. He leaves holiday dinners just to see me even if it's just for an hour and now it's to the the point where she actually suspects well to be more clear she went through his phone and saw txt messages between he and I and asked him if he was having an affair. He said no and that I was a "good girlfriend" that he knows and she threatened that if he was that she was going to get a divorce. His response to that was "stop going through my phone" then he put a new pass code on it. Honestly I think she suspected something for awhile now but she won't divorce home because she has it made. And even though she would get half in a divorce it wouldn't be enough to keep her cushy lifestyle going. So I know that she just deals with it in a away. Side note, he didn't marry her conventionally, his sister introduced them and he was approaching his 40's and wanted to have children so he figured that he would grow to love her which he does as the mother of his children but he NEVER fell in love with her. So yes, sometimes it's a lot more complicated than people realize.
Actually, the mistress can have contractual agreements that takes care of her when the man dies. In addition, she can obtain real estate with the man's wealth in her name. A mistress can be much more than sex. A mistress may even bore children. The only reason why she isn't a second wife is due to legality purposes. Overall, the mistress can get the same benefits that are legally binding.
wish i would've found this blog when it was first being discussed.. can i revive it? Neither have him/ they both have him: they each have half.
I just wanted to express my gratitude and appreciation to prophet salifu for bringing my husband back to me,I was married to my husband for 4 years and all of a sudden he started seeing another lady (his mistress).he started hailing at me and he was abusive.. and he hated me , but I still loved him with all my heart . the situation made me unsettle and not to focus at work .so a friend told me about trying (prophet salifu )spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to him ? i did not listen to her and hoped that my husband will come back home . after 9 month of seperation and depression , it got out of hand and my husband came back home to break the news to me that he want a divorce that he is getting married to his mistress .Hmmm it was so shocking to me ,i felt sad and more depressed ,so i contacted my friend again and decieded to try to use spiritual means reluctantly..although I didn't believe in all those things? I never thought in a million years that i will get my husband back to me a again. but I was proved wrong.after 24 hours, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it that we are back together. I am deeply satisfied and thankful with prophet salifu work .if you also want to fix you marriage or relationship email him at prophetsalifu@yahoo.com or prophetsalifu@gmail.com , his work is for a better life .
I just wanted to express my gratitude and appreciation to prophet salifu for bringing my husband back to me,I was married to my husband for 4 years and all of a sudden he started seeing another lady (his mistress).he started hailing at me and he was abusive.. and he hated me , but I still loved him with all my heart . the situation made me unsettle and not to focus at work .so a friend told me about trying (prophet salifu )spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to him ? i did not listen to her and hoped that my husband will come back home . after 9 month of seperation and depression , it got out of hand and my husband came back home to break the news to me that he want a divorce that he is getting married to his mistress .Hmmm it was so shocking to me ,i felt sad and more depressed ,so i contacted my friend again and decieded to try to use spiritual means reluctantly..although I didn't believe in all those things? I never thought in a million years that i will get my husband back to me a again. but I was proved wrong.after 24 hours, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it that we are back together. I am deeply satisfied and thankful with prophet salifu work .if you also want to fix you marriage or relationship email him at prophetsalifu@yahoo.com or prophetsalifu@gmail.com , his work is for a better life .
Wives just tell themselves the mistress is just for sex lol. If it makes you feel better then go on. When I was 19 I met a man at a restaurant, we started seeing eachother, never could have guessed he was married. He took me to his house, we had dinner at restaurants etc. being a 19 year old and Internet curious I found out he was married. Broke it off immediately, shit he wouldn't leave me alone for weeks. P.S we didn't even live in the same state. Telling me he wished he met me earlier, he has never had a person like me smile at him before, he can't promise me the future because he has businesses with his wife but even when he is with her he can't stop thinking about me. He said he loved her a lot and would never hurt her. I felt so sorry for him because he wasn't going to have me anymore but I must confess he is the best guy I have even met but then again I'm 20yrs old so I know nothing.
Some husband cheats just because he can, and think he will never get caught. And there is some woman out there willingly to cheat with a married man because she may think the wife is not doing her job. Simply because that is what he told her. Women should stop disrespecting each other!
Who the fuck cares who has the man...did you seriously write this dumb shit? As long as you get everything your man can cheat? Low self-esteem to the fullest. You women are so hard up on these cheating ass men that you all are blind as hell... you may hv all that shit but you don't hv the man's heart. Isn't that more important than that other bullshit. What's wrong with you ladies? Stop letting these cheating ass men walk all over you and your family. Wives and mistresses fighting over losers who don't gv a fuck about either one of you...pathetic and sad!!!
And they lived happily ever after lol. That's how the end of this story sounds. Here's the truth, I was a mistress, a younger woman at that. It wasn't just about sex, he loved me and I loved him. So much so he divorced his abusive wife and married me. He was married to her for 26 years and she too thought he would never go anywhere. He stayed because he had kids and no other options. He thought no other woman would want him until he met m . So married ladies, if he stays after cheating its not because he loves you, its because he does not want to lose any money in a divorce. He will continue to cheat but just get better at it.
Its complicated. Marriage is an economic arrangement and lifestyle choice, if there is love and passion also then this can be a beautiful life. Sometimes a man has to look outside of marriage for love and connection without ever intending to leave a marriage.Men are great at compartmentaling their lives. There can be a strong bond with a mistress and a wife.
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